Emotions ruin everything!

I've had many affairs over the years. One thing that I have made clear in each and every situation is that I do not want to get emotionally involved. You would think that a woman would have no problem finding a man who just wants sex, no? It's not as easy as you might think.

I've heard all the generalization about women not being able to separate love from sex and sex from love. In my experience, men have the same problem. For me, sex is purely carnal. It's a physical feeling that needs satiated. It has nothing to do with love or emotions, it's purely physical. It's about the hunt and the feeling it gives me.

So, why is it that men have such a tendency to think that they have fallen in love with me? Do I think it's because I'm such an awesome sex goddess that they can't resist me? Nah, I'm a little more realistic than that. I think it's because they fall in love with the idea of what I am. I am a kinky freak in bed. I fulfill their fantasies the best that I can. I fuck like a porn star. My pussy is tight, my tits are huge and I'm up for pretty much anything. I am the wholesome girl next door by day, dirty little whore by night that all men dream about.

What more could a man ask for? Well, I am finding that more and more men want the strings attached. They want the emotion involved. They think that if they get me to fall in love with them and leave The Man, they will have the perfect relationship. It doesn't work that way. You see, The Man and I used to have the perfect relationship. We fucked like porn stars and tried everything that we could imagine. Then, we went and fell in love for real. Not a lust filled love. Real, true, strong love. The sex did turn emotional. We began making love more often than fucking. We actually talked about a future and a family. That's when our relationship changed. We fell in love with each other, got married and started a family.

Most men don't seem to realize that once a relationship turns emotional, it no longer satisfies the purely carnal need for fucking. Every man is different. Each experience is unique. The way my pussy feels wrapped around his cock, the way his tongue feels licking my clit, the way he pulls my hair and spanks my ass, the way he moans my name as he is about to cum... it's all different. The differences are what I crave. Sure, sometimes I like to revisit those feelings, fucking the same man again and again over a period of time. There is also the thrill of the chase. Meeting a new man, flirting with him. The anxiousness of what the first time will be like. Exploring his wants, his needs, his fantasies and telling him mine.

Getting emotional takes all of that away. It leads to comfort and falling into routines. I have that with The Man, I don't want it with anyone else. I also do not want to leave The Man. He doesn't treat me badly, in any way... he doesn't hit me, he isn't verbally or emotionally abusive, he treats me like a princess and I am very happy with my marriage. I fuck other men for purely physical reasons. I'm not looking to fall in love with anyone or have anyone fall in love with me. I'm not looking to be rescued from my life as a wife and mother. I love my life, I love The Man and I love my children. I also just happen to love getting fucked.

So, men... please tell me... why is it that you have such a tendency to get all emotional on me? What's the deal? Am I missing something?